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Just some of the questions that come my way every day from
surfers thinking about using dating sites.....
- DO DATING SITES WORK?
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The short answer is "yes". The long answer is that you need to
be smart in your approach to using dating sites. You have to be
selective in just the same way you would offline. If your
chances of finding a down home spouse in a lap dancing club are
slim, they'll also be pretty slight if you go looking for your
true love on a site with a strong "adult" flavor. Tailor your
search to what you want and most of all, be patient - there are
thousands of people online, but it may take a little time to
find the one who's just for you!
- ARE THE ADS AND PROFILES GENUINE?
Visit the average site on the internet. Even the smallest will
have tens of profiles, the most successful like Friendfinder or
Udate have several hundreds of thousands. Site owners don't need
to invent profiles, there are people just queuing up to meet
others, so it's very easy for owners to build a client database.
While the individuals may exist, what they actually write is
beyond the control of dating sites. Sites like Kiss, Udate and
Match.com are very hot on prohibiting the use of profanity or
offensive language in ads, but they can't check on the veracity
of what people say about themselves. That's down to you (see our
upcoming article in "Dating Tips" on the site).
- WHAT SHOULD I JOIN - A DATING AGENCY OR A DATING SITE?
Offline dating agencies have the edge over online dating sites
in several areas;
- They usually attract a local clientele;
- They may undertake to "match" you with suitable dates based on
their knowledge of the individuals;
- They may organise social events which you can attend without
the pressure of a formal date with a stranger;
- They may undertake a degree of checking of personal
credentials to ensure people are who they say they are.
Online dating sites steal the light from offline agencies in the
following areas;
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- They are usually far cheaper to join - the most expensive
agencies can cost several thousand dollars.
- They usually win hands down when it comes to membership
numbers and therefore choice - the biggest sites often have
membership lists which are in the hundreds of thousands.
- The best sites appeal to our desire for immediacy and
encourage high participation because they are such fun - it
might take a couple of weeks to arrange a date via a traditional
dating agency - you can be chatting to someone you're interested
in within five minutes on a site with chat facilities.
- If you're reticient about "exposing" yourself in a phone call
or meeting, you can hide behind the relative anonymity of chat
or e-mail.
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ALL THE SITES ASK MEMBERS TO WRITE A PROFILE. DO I REALLY NEED
TO BOTHER WITH THIS?
- Our answer would be yes, yes and YES! Time and time again, the
reports we receive from users of dating sites suggest that it's
the profile that separates the wheat from the chaff. In other
words, users look to your profile to find things that set you
apart from the crowd. Remember, there are probably many
thousands of people with your age, height, geographical and
other characteristics. You need to give the reader something
that will make the reader think you're a cut above the rest.
OK, OK, SO I NEED TO WRITE A PROFILE! WHAT ON EARTH DO I WRITE?
- That's up to you of course. If you're stuck, take time out and
go look at the other ads written by people of the same gender as
you. Find the ones you loathe and love and consider why - are
they inventive, funny, searching or are they dull, bland and
desperate? Decide on the image you'd like to project and go for
it. Tell your reader what you're really like and what you're
looking for in a partner. Be truthful. Try to avoid using
abbreviations - not only do they suggest you've been on the
dating scene so long you've acquired a new language, there will
also be people who have no idea what gsoh wlm swf means!
DO I NEED A PHOTO?
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- We'd strongly advise you to. Lsex chatike a profile, it's what sets
you apart, and it's true what the dating sites say - ads with
photos attract 5-7 times more responses than those without.
Let's face it; YOU prefer to see you you're responding to, don't
you?
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Use a snap that looks like you today - we've come across more
than one user who established a correspondence with someone
whose phot attracted them, only to discover they were 15 years
older and 50 pounds heavier when they actually met! Even if they
like you, people are often annoyed by these seemingly innocent
deceptions, and will terminate a relationship it's you that gets
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hurt in the end....
I'VE CONTACTED LOADS OF PEOPLE, AND NO-ONE EVER RESPONDS - WHY?
- Have you written comprehensive profile? Got a decent photo?
If you've answered yes to these questions, you need to consider
a number of other factors, like your geographical location, age,
and who you're seeking. If you're a fifty year-old male living
in a remote location seeking a woman who lives nearby, you're
probably going to find it rough. Broaden your horizons a little.
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Write a compelling initial e-mail or instant message. Remember
that the person you're sending to may receive many such messages
- yours needs to stand out. Make it original - it's easy to spot
a cut-and-paste job - no-one wants to be spun a line. If you're
looking to form a relationship, try to avoid messages which are
overly sexually overt in the first instance - you may offend. If
things take off, you can get as suggestive as you like!
Sites mentioned; Udate
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http://www.connectionzone.com/welcome.asp?R=6030
Kiss.com http://www.connectionzone.com/welcome.asp?R=5898
Friendfinder http://www.friendfinder.com/go/f31730
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